The reasons why we don't celebrate All Soul's Day...

Today is the first day of November and as my calendar says, it is All Souls Day. Today is the time of the year where most people give so much attention on remembering their dead loved ones. They are spending too much effort praying, believing that they still can do something to save their deads from  a  place called purgatory (unfortunately, purgatory was never mentioned in the bible, not even once). They  are holding on to their belief that prayers can still do something to lighten whatever burden the deads are carrying. They believe that  eventually, when the prayers are already enough ,the deads will be moved to heaven (well, at least for those who believe). People believing on this passed on custom from generation to generation are either visiting church or cemetery and then they offer prayers, flowers, lit candles, and they even serve food hoping that their dead loved ones are hearing  and appreciating what is braced for them. It is saddening to know that important commandments such as this was not thaught by their church leaders.  They are not aware that God is not allowing  living people to communicate with dead people. It is an abomination to Him.

Deutoronomy 18:10-12

There shall not be found among you any one that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, or that useth divination, or an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch. Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For all that do these things are an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee.

Thanks be to God, He introduced Bro. Eli to me. I have learned why I should'nt  be a part of this baseless  and unbiblical tradition.

Here are some questions that I once asked about death and living that I learned from Bro. Eli:

First, is it correct to believe that dead people can still roam around and watch over the living? Sorry, but the answer is a big NO.

Job 7:9-10

As a cloud vanishes and is gone, so one who goes down to the grave does not return. He will never come to his house again; his place will know him no more. 

Ecclesiastes 9:5-6

For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward, and even the memory of them is forgotten. Their love, their hate and their jealousy have long since vanished; never again will they have a part in anything that happens under the sun.

So, why we should'nt be praying for dead people? Because they are already in God's hands. Death is the end and after  that, people will be judged according to how he lived his life on earth.

 Job 12:10

For the life of every living thing is in his hand, and the breath of every human being.

However, God commanded us to pray for the living and not for those that passed away already.

I John 5:16 

If you see any brother or sister commit a sin that does not lead to death, you should pray and God will give them life. I refer to those whose sin does not lead to death. There is a sin that leads to death. I am not saying that you should pray about that. 

 And because when we die, there is no amount of prayers from our loved ones that can add up any good for us so better do our best while we are still breathing. 

Ecclesiastes 9:10

¹⁰ Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom.

Watch these videos so you'll know more about life and death according to what the bible is saying!

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Goodbye, Sweet Yue Yue...

Days ago, the world was shocked and enraged at the same time by this brutal incident. I first saw a caption about this video captured by a CCTV camera in Gaungzhou, China in Facebook. I watched the first few seconds but  on the part when the child was already hit by the car, I can't merely stand watching the full film. I can't help but cry.  It was heartbreaking. For me, those people that saw the child but did not do anything to help, they are more than heartless.  Sorry, but that is the best word that I know will suit them.  The only person who dared to help the little kid was even accused of being publicity-looking old lady. Ridiculous.

Chen Xianmei, a helpful -old woman  was the only one who helped the 2-yr old kid.

Until now, I am astonished on the behavior that the passers-by have shown. The way they responded to the situation did not even show a slight shadow of concern. It was so unusual. I do not know what's in them but there is one thing I have learned from the bible and I strongly believe that it is guarateed true: by nature, all human beings are equipped with God's words. It is written in the heart of each one of us. It is just up to us whether we follow our conscience or not.

Romans 2:15 

They show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts sometimes accusing them and at other times even defending them.  

But it is not yet the end of the line. God is forgiving more than anyone else. he will surely be glad to accept those who will turn their backs from evil and decide to walk on the path He wanted us to take.  God has the power to enlighten people's minds. I hope and pray that God may see some beauty in their hearts and give them chance change before it is too late. 

Deutoronomy 30:19 

 This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live. 

The struggling toddler, Yue Yue..

Now, the toddler is dead due to internal organs failure. The kid managed to fight but God has taken back   the little child's life now. For Yue Yue, thanks be to God for the world have known you. Though it was in a tragic way, at least, you have left a mark and story that everybody will learn something from. You are indeed beautiful and God will bring you in heaven when it is the proper time already. That is for sure. Among with others who died as kids and babies, You are lucky.

Matthew 19:14

Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, 

for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”

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Will God hear the Prayer of a Woman Facing an Abortion? 

The more the enemies defame Bro. Eli, Soriano, the more he shines..

There are things in life that we can just simply let go...

     ... A friend we helped on something did not even bother saying thanks. It's nothing, we can let go.
     ... A relative who owes us money and got no plans of paying. We still can earn that. Thus, can let go.

     ... An officemate bullying us. At certain level, we can let go.

But when anyone does us evil because we are doing good things to give glory to God's kindness, this is not allowed by God. So, we need to speak up and defend the truth. Now.

Romans 14:16 

 Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil.

Few days ago, GMA 7 replayed a biased episode for "Case Unclosed", a supposed-to-be news and public affairs tv show that is not siding anyone. This episode i am referring to is the one that featured Bro. Eli Soriano on an invented rape case that starred an ADD expelled member Daniel Veridiano aka "Puto". It was first aired sometime in 2009. This case is still being processed in the court. Thus, Bro. Eli cannot defend himself because  the law does not allow anyone  to comment in public for any case ongoing. So, how can he give his side? Nevertheless, Daniel Veridiano is not a credible person. Logically speaking, how can an old man (Bro. Eli) rape a young gay (Puto)? Firstly, he is stronger than him. Surely, he can overpower him. Secondly, Puto is a self-confessed serial rapist, a rapist raped? The truth is, he was expelled from the church for doing so many conscienceless and unscrupulous deeds and these includes stealing brethren's monetary contributions, raping several young men in the church and forging signatures for church credit cards. And now being used by Iglesia ni Manalo to malign our leader. What is into GMA 7 and Arnold Clavio's mind when they agreed to have this case?They are ruining their reputation by getting this no-credibility guy to be their main man. 

Veridiano confessing about his wrong doings.

 (Confessions from his terrorized victims)

Click HERE  for the more details of the story.

For everybody's information, this case filed by Daniel Veridiano was already dismissed on  January 26, 2006 as penned by Alexandro Lopez, Assistant Provincial Prosecutor of Region III, San Fernando, Pampanga and as approved by Provincial Prosecutor Jesus  Y.  Manarang because of lack of evidence. Magically, on March 21, 2006, Secretary of Justice (or should I say Injustice?) Raul Gonzales, rapt regional state prosecutor Jesus Simbulan to elevate the records of the rape case to his office, the Department of Justice. So, there is something wrong here. 

Read more on this. Click here.

Luckily, for those who keep maligning  our leader/s, we are not being thought to do the fight you are imposing. We are not into hurting anyone physically. We still follow what's in the bible. We do not speak out now to simply defend, but to save those that might be deceived by your false propaganda.

Ephesians 6:12

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. 

As such, we are guided by this: Everything happens according to God's will.

Romans 8:28

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose.

On the other hand, we can also thank those that are maligning Bro Eli. Why? They are making Bro. Eli so famous. Many people get curious and interested. And these bad guys make him shine brighter. As a matter of fact, many award giving bodies, local and international, have recognized Bro Eli for his exemplary efforts to propagate God's words.  Below is a partial list. 

Awards and Recognitions

February 2011

Shorty Awards Finalist (Twitter)

Television Category

April 2009

Mashable Awards

Most Educational to Follow

 March 2006

Gawad Amerika

Most Informative Religious Show

March 30, 2005

Certificate of Appreciation

In recognition of his contribution to the Bible cause as a lifetime member, regular donor and major distribution partner.

Awarded by Philippine Bible Society

August 19, 1999

Certificate of Appreciation

For his persistent and untiring effort in sharing God’s precious words to the inmates of Cabanatuan District Jail whereby building God’s kingdom on earth.

Awarded by Bureau of Jail Management and Penology

May 9, 1999

Distinguished Service Award

Outstanding Religious Leader

Awarded by Child Assistance And Rehabilitation Entity

May 2, 1999

Public Service – National Achievement Award

Outstanding Religious Crusader – Ang Dating Daan

Awarded by Peoples Vision Magazine

March 13, 1999

National Golden Award for Excellence

In recognition of your meritorious and dedicated performances towards human upliftment, dedication to duty, and for your untiring support to community activities impressed with the seal of excellence and a resounding manifestation of integrity and high sense of honor.

Awarded by United Group of Charities and Human Development

February 20, 1999

Golden Heart Public Service Award

In full recognition of your excellence marked by integrity, industry, principle and collective leadership which established prestige of your personality to the highest level of public service as demonstrated by your record thru your profession; a top leader of strength, courage and dignity of the era.

Awarded by Development of Filipino Youth, Inc.

December 30, 1998

Dr. Jose P. Rizal Immortal Award ‘98

Outstanding Servant of God; Gospel Minister of the Year

Awarded by Philippine Experimental Educational Research Society, Inc.

December 20, 1998

Gintong Sikap Award

Outstanding Man of the Year

Awarded by Federation of Filipino Consumers, Inc.

December 19, 1998

Golden Exceptional Achievement Award

(to the 12 outstanding model citizens of new republic) Outstanding Religious Leader of the Year

Awarded by Asian Research for Unity of Filipino Citizenry, Inc.

December 5, 1998

International Golden Award

In full recognition of your meritorious and outstanding services rendered to human upliftment benefiting your fellowmen; devotion to duties coupled with hard work and honesty impressed with the seal of excellence, high sense of honor and resounding manifestation of integrity

Awarded by International Research and Communication Center, Inc.

November 30, 1998

Andres Bonifacio Golden Records Of Excellence

Outstanding Evangelist; Gospel Minister of the Year

Awarded by New Life on Family Development and Youth Council

October 4, 1998

Centennial Exemplary Leadership Award

In full recognition of your laudable performances, dynamic leadership and collective achievement in your chosen profession anchored on mutual respect and assistance serving as a valuable model Filipino with the practice of honesty, industry and dignity thereby establishing level of public service.

Awarded by Philippines Outreach Youth Self-Help Project, Inc.

October 3, 1998

Consumers Award

Outstanding Gospel Minister of the Year

Awarded by Federation of Filipino Consumers

September 20, 1998

Bayani ng Lahing Kayumanggi (Hero of the Brown Race)

Outstanding Preacher; Civic Leader of the Year

Awarded by Fifth Edition People Magazine

September 19, 1998

Media Excellence Awards for Progress ‘98

Outstanding Preacher; Religious Minister of the Year; Best in Religious Services Towards Philippines 2000

Awarded by Philippine Media Research and Progress Report, Inc.

August 30, 1998

National Patriotic Leadership Award

Distinguished Filipino Achiever of the Year

Awarded by Development of Filipino Writers.

August 29, 1998

National Golden Service Award

In full recognition of your meritorious and outstanding services rendered for human upliftment benefiting your fellowmen, devotion to duties coupled with hard work and honesty impressed with the seal of excellence, high sense of honor and a resounding manifestation of integrity

Awarded by Fil-Asia Research Society, Inc.

August 15, 1998

Media Achievement Award ‘98

Outstanding Religious Leader of the Year

Awarded by Free Media Associations of the Philippines

July 26, 1998

Distinguished Service Award

A devoted servant of God. In full recognition of his outstanding and meritorious services rendered to his fellowmen in the field of religion. Exemplary Socio-civic and Religious leader.

Awarded by Sons and Daughters of Charity

June 21, 1998

Special Award

For his untiring guidance and teaching to his Ministry by which he is being loved and respected: through his words and having had immeasurable love for everyone and a dedicated, servant of God.

Awarded by Development of Filipino Youth, Inc.

June 12, 1998

Gawad Dr. Jose P. Rizal

Dahil sa kanyang katangi-tanging pagtupad ng kanyang tungkulin bilang tagapangaral at lingkod ng Diyos. isa siyang huwarang panauhin ng ating lipunan.

Awarded by Philippine Experimental Educational Research Society

June 12, 1998

Kalayaan (Freedom) Award ‘98

Dahil sa kanyang makatotohanang pagpapalaganap at pagpapahayag ng mga salita ng Diyos na siyang naging kasangkapan upang maunawaan at lubos na makilala ang Panginoong Diyos, isa siyang tunay na sugo ng ating Panginoon.

Awarded by National Biographic and Historical Research

May 31, 1998

Golden Leadership-National Award

In full recognition of your exemplary leadership sealed with honesty industry and dignity which have established your personality among peer and to the highest of ministerial services. A model Filipino in this Centennial Administration.

Awarded by Concerned Media, Inc.

March 28, 1998

Golden Excellence Award

Outstanding Religious Leader of the Year

Awarded by Philippine Brotherhood and Sisterhood Council

February 28, 1998

1998 Exemplary Service Award

Man of the Year

Awarded by Sons and Daughters of Charity

March 19, 1994

Certificate of Appreciation

For cooperation, support and material contribution which has helped enable the DSWD to implement and prosecute its various programs and services designed to alleviate and uplift the conditions and livelihood of the municipality’s depressed sectors and individuals.

Awarded by Province of Pampanga Municipal Social Welfare and Development,

Municipality of Apalit

December 23, 1984

Plaque of Appreciation

Most Outstanding Gospel Minister of the Year

Awarded by Genius Family (A program over GMA-7 radio/TV arts)

December 25, 1983

Certificate Of Appreciation

Most Outstanding Gospel Minister of the Year

Awarded by Genius Family (A program over GMA-7 radio/TV arts)

One last note for our leaders' offenders: No matter how hard you try, God's will will prevail. So, the more his enemies defame him (Bro Eli Soriano), the more he shines. I hope now, you noticed the obvious.

Isaiah 46:9-10
Remember the former things, those of long ago; I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me. I make known the end from the beginning, from ancient times, what is still to come.I say, ‘My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please.’

Enemies of truth serve as catalyst to make good things happen quicker. Like for this fabricated rape case, They made us a certified International organization. Beat that!

It is not yet too late for those who persecute our leaders to change their mind. Side the good, leave the evil.

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Informative links you may want to follow:

http://www.elisoriano.com/en/

http://www.untvweb.com/

Realted links:

http://weavedthoughts.blogspot.com/2011/02/bro-daniel-razon-bro-eli-soriano.html

http://weavedthoughts.blogspot.com/2010/12/bro-eli-finalist-again-in-mashable.html

So now, what will we live for?

Bible says: 

Eclesiastes 12:1-8

Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth, before the evil days come and the years draw near when you will say, “I have no delight in them”; before the sun and the light, the moon and the stars are darkened, and clouds return after the rain; in the day that the watchmen of the house tremble, and mighty men stoop, the grinding ones stand idle because they are few, and those who look through windows grow dim;  and the doors on the street are shut as the sound of the grinding mill is low, and one will arise at the sound of the bird, and all the daughters of song will sing softly. Furthermore, men are afraid of a high place and of terrors on the road; the almond tree blossoms, the grasshopper drags himself along, and the caperberry is ineffective. For man goes to his eternal home while mourners go about in the street. Remember Him before the silver cord is broken and the golden bowl is crushed, the pitcher by the well is shattered and the wheel at the cistern is crushed; then the dust will return to the earth as it was, and the spirit will return to God who gave it. Vanity of vanities,” says the Preacher, “all is vanity!”  

While we are still at the prime of our lives, we have to spend our time wisely. Don't waste it with things of frivolity. The video below is an advertisement for a bank in Taiwan done years ago. Obviously, it encourages people to prepare for their "future". It is good to plan ahead, but there is a thing called eternity that we should give more focus to. Before that day comes, a rigid preparation has to be done. It is saddening that, little did many people realize that no matter how we plan for our lives, inevitably, all of us will die in whichever way and timing God will allow. And our borrowed life will go back to God. Everything that we worked hard for will be left behind.

                

                                

Still, the big question remains: What will we live for:? Save and work for things of this world OR, prepare  on something that God has prepared for us after everything here on earth is done? Will we still be bothered much on keeping things that is seen in this place called earth? The problem with us, people, is we are so much attached to things we see around. We are very much disturbed on how to acquire more and more material things each and everyday. In one of Thanksgiving day, Bro. Daniel discussed about how can God destroy all people's riches in a single wink. All He can do is send typhoon or earthquke, maybe. Then everything will be gone. Forever. What happened to Japan was his example.

Bible says: 

2 Corinthians 4:18

So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

Japan before part it was stricken by Tsunami this year.

And this is what 's left after the tragedy.

                                      

In a matter of hours, all was gone. many died. few survived. The once so progressive place looks like a haunted town now. Riches cannot save anyone. God can take it away in a snap. And if calamity don't come our way, still everything you have will rotten in time.

Bible says: 

Matthew 6:19-20 Treasures in Heaven“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.

 This was once a beautiful house. Now, a beautiful house no more.

God has given us life for us to spend in servicing Him, with our whole capability and ability.

 Bible says:

(Luke 10:27) And he answered, " You shall love the Lord God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and neighbors as yourself."

So, are you interested know how to spend your younger years to get to eternity? Go here and keep reading. From this man, you will learn more about salvation, trust me. He will teach you the truth about God and the bible. All these learnings, I owe to God through this man.

We dont pick who we fall in-love with...

 Here I go again. This is an after-effect of watching too much love stories so please have a basket full of patience if you intend to finish reading this entry.

Though this is not a new line, I love this dialogue in the movie we just watched: We dont pick who we fall in-love with... Oh yes. It is so, so true. This can probably the reason why there are pairs that seem to be odd: tall girl with a so short man;and intelligent girl married to an average guy; head-turner gal holding hands with not-so-goodlooking boy. And love being "magical" and "mysterious" does'nt stop here. We can never tell. I have a friend who got married to his college teacher and a schoolmate who got married to her bigtime crush that never gave her the attention she has been dreaming of since elementary days. For sure, a lot of you got more fascinating love stories to share and these might not be too shocking for you. But it is, at least, for me. 

Shudders and giggles aside, we certainly cannot choose who we fall in-love with. It will come from nowhere and  we will be caught unaware that we started to fall slowly. But it is not because we feel something special about a person, we can say that he is "the one" already.  Will a boy fall for a girl who's already committed with another boy? Yes, this is so possible, but it is rightful and just? Will you choose to  be in the  "loving arms" of a drug addict o a drug lord? There are some who will readily get into this. Would that be good? Definitely not.We don't pick who we fall in-love with but we do have guide to avoid getting caught in a serious trouble because of falling in-love.  Be very careful of the character of the person you'll get involved with. Always  be guided by God's words. Remember this verse:

Proverbs 19:14
House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.

Do not do things your way. God has something good for each one of us. Just follow Him first and everything will follow. We should entrust things to Him. He knows best.

Matthew 6:33 

But seek ye first the kingdom of God,and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Falling in-love and getting into a relationship is a serious commitment. We should know. It is not all about snuggling, hugging, holding hands and sweet-nothings.  It is not like a fairy tale story that, most of the time, ends happily everafter. Its a promise. A commitment that we should keep. We are all aware that in anything, along the way problems pop up. Conflicts arise. Intruders get into the scene. Always remember that we are tied in a covenant.

Galatians 3:15

Brothers and sisters, let me take an example from everyday life. Just as no one can set aside or add to a human covenant that has been duly established, so it is in this case. 

And with this commitment, we should learn to accept our partner's shortcomings and lapses. Who does'nt commit mistakes, anyway? As what Bro. Eli Soriano told us weeks ago: Marry a person who loves you so much. True, indeed because a person who is deeply in-love can accept and endure anything for the love of his life.

Before I end this blog, there is one very important pointer I want to share (I learned this, of course, from Bro. Eli Soriano), never ever select a person who will keep you away from God and bring you to danger instead. If that would be the case, let go. The pain will not last a lifetime, anyway. There is more to life than having a lovelife.Well, no need to say more. Be wise!


Related links:
http://esoriano.wordpress.com/category/marriage/

The False Prophets and Their Insane Prophesies

 

The number of persons who preach using the name of God, is increasing in number. They also dare to have prediction of what will happen in the future, particularly about the coming of Christ. Little do they know that the bible already knew they were coming.

Matthew 24:11, 24

...and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people.
 ...For there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect.

Today, another false prophet in the person of Harold Camping,  is proven wrong. This 89 year-old man "prophesied" that Jesus Christ's second coming is 21 May, 2011 and world will end on 21 Oct 2011. And today is 21 May 2011, and what he said did not take place. This is no the first time he  predicted  about this. Sometime in 1994, he presented his insights about the upcoming rapture, and obviously, it did not happen. Reason behind? Nobody knows the exact time and day that Jesus will descend from heavens, only the Father.

Matthew 24:36
But of that day and hour knoweth no one, not even the angels of heaven, neither the Son, but the Father only.

Anyone who dare use God's name in anything he say and that thing never happen, then he is surely a liar and arrogant. God commanded us not to believe.

Deutoronomy 18:22 

When a prophet speaks in the name of the LORD, if the thing follow not, nor come to pass, that is the thing which the LORD has not spoken, but the prophet has spoken it presumptuously: you shall not be afraid of him. 

However, even this deceivers have been proven  wrong and exposed, it is really sad to know hat there are still some that undoubtedly listen and believe. Blind followers, no doubt. Well, whatever, wherever, whenever- the bible has always something to say.

Matthew 15:14

Let them alone: they are blind guides. And if the blind guide the blind, both shall fall into a pit.


 Here are some false prophets' predictions in the past that never come into reality.

Jehovah's Witness
21 March 1844, 22 Oct 1844, 1914, 1918, 1920, 1925, 1941, 21 May 1975, 1994

Mr. Bang Ik Ha
October 1992 and October 1999

Mr. William Miller
1843 and 21 March 1844

On 21 December 2012, we have this another falacy about the end of he world. Ridiculous, really. This is the fruit of not knowing the real God.

Among predictions that we have heard for ages, Nostradamus' is I think the most famous- and many believes in him. This famous physician, astrologer and "prophet" of his time, I assume, is an intelligent man. However, he disappointed me having these predictions. He should have concentrated in astrology and medicine. Man's intelligence is nothing to God. Besides, only God is the authority on knowing the future.

Why shall we rely on these demon-inspired "prophesies"? There is no basis but the bible alone. All things that wants us to follow and listen to is written there. Let's just be ready all the time because He will come back as a surprise and pity on us all if we are not prepared. 

Matthew 24:44 
So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.

Thanks be to God, that because of Bro Eli Soriano, noboby can deceive us as we are equipped with the correct knowledge from the bible.

Related links:

http://esoriano.wordpress.com/2011/04/26/gods-power-is-the-missing-link/
http://esoriano.wordpress.com/category/jehovahs-witness/
http://esoriano.wordpress.com/2011/05/20/greatest-religious-crime/

A Christian's Overview for the Movie "Hall Pass"

One time, on our way home from I-don't-remember-where, my husband and I had this conversation:

My husband:  Have you heard of the movie "Hall Pass"?

Me: No. Why? What is the story about?

My husband: It is about two married men who were given the chance by their wives to do philandering for a week.

Me: You want me to give you Hall Pass, too? Is that what you mean by telling me that?

My husband: (Paused for a while). No. I don't want it. It sounds like "HELL PASS". I Don't want to be there!

Me: Hahahahaha! Learned Christian.

And we both laugh out loud :-)

There is nothing more I can say but thanks be to God for a  loving, considerate, and mostly, God-fearing husband. And  I am so grateful that we are continuously growing  in faith thru Bro Eli Soriano.

Seriously, this movie got a lot important  points to discuss with regards to violating  God's  will.  The chaotic story started when Rick's (Owen Wilson) and Fred's (Jason Sudeikis) wives got irritated and so overly annoyed with their constant cracking of dirty jokes and sidelong and slyly lascivious glances to other girls. So, to stop these crazy stuff on their better halves' heads,  they came up  with  this hall pass idea. They didn't worry much because they were quite confident that their husbands are lousy girl hunters. And as the husbands were busy "hunting", the women had their break and almost had extramarital affairs, too.

However, even with a wife-approved philandering, best buddies Rick and Fred  had difficulty living out their psychotic beliefs about life as unmarried guys. But in the end, they  have realized that they are so much dedicated to their vows more than how they imagined they were. 

There is no such thing as perfect, not even a marriage. And as what I have learned from Bro Eli Soriano, that is the very reason why God made all  the commandments. He knows that people has the tendency to go the way they shouldn't take. So, to keep the  relationship properly nurtured, it must be flourished with the best guides to  follow everyday. A lot of books now have been written on how to this or how to do that- books about almost everything for everyday living. But there is this one book that will provide the only correct set of rules to follow- the Bible.

To Christians, marriage is a very sacred thing and a life-long commitment. Its a vow blessed by God that once you said yes to marriage, there is no turning back.
  

James 5:12 Above all, my brothers and sisters, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. All you need to say is a simple “Yes” or “No.” Otherwise you will be condemned.

Only death can separate a Christian couple. In sickness and in health, for better or for worse,until death do they part.So, whatever difficulties and struggles come in each couple's way, they should stick together until the end. A Christian couple is strictly and firmly bounded to God's law.

(Romans 7:2) “For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.”

 In marriage, philandering and adultery is not acceptable for Christians. In the story, women let their husbands do it because they got pissed off. But, if you are a  Christian, you will never push your husband to do such  because it is a serious offense against God's will. In the story's climax, the wives had nearly done cheating, too. In real life, this scenario makes satan so, so happy since preys bite his bait willingly. So, when we see bad thoughts pop up on your partner's mind- block it immediately so as not to let satan step in.

Hebrews 13:4   Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. 

The main guys in the film were so inconsiderate about how their wives would feel when they openly express their wild lunatic thoughts when seeing other gal's skin and curves laid before their eyes. Women are fragile by nature, emotionally and physically. And that is the reason why God commanded husbands to be so protective extra careful with their wives.

1 Peter 3:7   Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 

And discussing about their crazy fantasies about other females is not only about being uncaring and insensitive about their wives' feelings, but the act  of fantasizing about other girls also made them commit adultery already. Only few knows that adultery is only committed if there is a physical contact. Well, blame it to the religious leaders that only cares for the tithes. They Pretend to be of God, but their teachings show otherwise and most of the times, using God's word for profit.

 Matthew 5:27-28  “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery,²⁸But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

 

Ones married, the man is one with the woman and they should be working and moving as one body. They have to work hand in hand. A Christian couple is admonished by God to live under God’s law.

1 Corinthians 7:4-5  The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 

So to couples, put God and His law in the center and with His mercy and grace, everything will be alright.

Related links:

 Love is lovelier the second time around.. with God

Strangers Again

Why Relationships Fail 

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